boudoir pics... yay or nay?

[Cbrider]

Do women realize that when they take these kind of photo's, all your bf's friends see them?

What do you think happens on guys night out when everyone is drunk.....the girlfriend contest starts, and the phones come out.

With that said, I support this idea.

I voted that I was a woman and to bring on the flash - I felt it was appropriate to support women in their new found endeavors.

[Gribble]

You guys who are saying you'd never show these pictures, you must not have very close friends. That's not a jab or anything. I'm just saying... I know all the intimate details of my closest friend's girlfriends. He knows all the details of mine. There are no secrets between us.

[Creativejeanius]

I've never have shared any pictures of my girlfriends with my friends. Them shits are mine.

[IndiReloaded]

If I did, I wouldn't ever tell.

If I did, it would have to be nude, with a snake around me. Like this gal:

[url]http://www.liveauctioneers.com/item/5436904[/url]

[Charlie Boy II]

Kristen sent me those kind of pictures when I was overseas. They blew my mind. I still pull them out from time to time.

I kind of like the more "amatuer" ones. Like the girl just doing it on her own, rather than have a photographer. It's more raw.

And I've never shown anyone those photos either. I gave Kristin my word I wouldn't. It's different Gribble if it's a girl you've genuinely cared about. You don't want your friends to see that shit.

[aimeetron]

Provided its classy and not overly slutty and cheesy then I would for sure.

[flea]

hell yes for me!

years ago I took some shots of my gf (still with) at a local reservoir in denim shorts and a tank top. I went and bought black and white film (yes, FILM!) and took a bunch of shots getting her to pose certain ways. she was really apprehensive about doing it, because she didn't see herself as 'that' kind of attractive (utter rubbish) but she looked absolutely beautiful, they turned out great and we both had fun doing it. I had to go into the chemist (pharmacy) to get them after they were developed though, because we did a couple of 'kissy/touchy' photos as well and she was embarrassed.

just another take on the idea....do it together!

[CocoChanel]

That's immature. Some sick teenager would do something like that. But I know how mine is. He's too selfish and he does not like to share.

[Petit Papillon]

I think it depends on a guy whether he shows those pics to his friends or not. I agree with CB that if a guy shared some special feelings with the girl he will keep those pictures as a sweet memory of her. Just for him .
Tho there are four cases ,where a guy would show his gf's/ex's pictures to his friends ,that I'm thinking of.
1.She has hurt him very much and this is his kind of sweet revange
2.He's adult and immature or still in high school
3.She never had some special place in his heart
4.In case of sex tape where he's on it too - he have no life to lose ,no serious job where he have to look serious.
Sometimes a girl can feel whether the guy is a kind of a jerk who will show those pictures or the one who will keep them to himself.I think guys here rimo,Dopp,Fras,Creative and CB deserve some special props. You give me hope ,that there are still guys who aren't completely assholes

And about the poll... I actually dunno how to vote I have some pro's and con's and I think it always depends on the relationship and the guy You want to give it to... dunno how to vote

[qwertz]

Hell yeh, i would and have.

I have quite a large collection of raunchy pics..my fav being me in my riding gear..with nothing but full chaps on and holding a riding whip across my boobs.
That went down quite well.

Non are professional..just taken myself with camera on a timer!

[Junket]

You guys who are saying you'd never show these pictures, you must not have very close friends. That's not a jab or anything. I'm just saying... I know all the intimate details of my closest friend's girlfriends. He knows all the details of mine. There are no secrets between us.

I didn't know you had a boyfriend.

[Gribble]

Yup. We've been together nineteen years now.

How could I possibly be closer to some chick? This is the guy who had my back when that snot-nosed Butler kid tried to smear boogers on me in the second grade. Shit like that you don't forget, man.

[doppelgaenger]

I gotta say, I'd like the more amateur ones as well. I wouldn't like it if someone else took pictures of my woman.

[girl68]

I have been thinking about doing it too. I looked at different websites and it is pretty expensive

My shoot was $250 the book I'm getting is $1000. Yes, expensive but worth every penny.

I'm all for 'em. However ladies, keep one thing in mind. No matter how adamantly your boyfriend SWEARS he'll never show those pics to another living soul, rest assured that his closest friends will be ogling them the moment your back is turned.

No he wouldn't. Guys have vouched for that. And yes, he has very close friends. My man knows when and how to respect mine and our relationships' privacy.

I have some pro's and con's and I think it always depends on the relationship and the guy You want to give it to...

What are the pros and cons for you PP?
My pros were: I'm young, I'm hot, and I want to document it.
My cons were: it's expensive

[Petit Papillon]

What are the pros and cons for you PP?

Dunno exactly I actually don't like to pose Tho I know I'm hot ;P I don't like to pose especially in front of strangers.I'm little insecure when it comes to pose (I don't have that problem when I'm drunk )