Nah... I disagree.
Men want something that is more or less unrealistic long term. A healthy strong looking mate is NOT model skinny. (Which is what I talk about here).
For example: they say curves are the sign of a "healthy" mate because curvy women have less complications during birth.
And yes I believe that being attracted to people isn't superficial, it becomes superficial when I look at what *most* men find appealing; simply becuase it is unrealistic.
Why else do we have weight loss, titty growing, wrinkle hiding pills and creams? It ain't so that we desire to be desired by ourselves...