Originally Posted by
CocoChanel
I don't agree with the majority of people view on watching pornography. There are those men who feel as though they HAVE to watch it... like an addict. There are those men who watch it to masturbate and get off on it. It's ridiculous!!
And the moment a woman says she is uncomfortable with it... she is the one with the issue.
I don't agree with that at all. Even though I disagree I never even bothered trying to change a guys view about watching pornography. I look it as porn being their weakness.
Counseling will help if you give it a fair chance. My first time around... i didn't give it a fair chance. I gave up quick. LOL! But now that I have started going back it really does help. You could also try your luck with posting here too.
Originally Posted by
girl68
Please don't derail my thread with the whole porn debate, I've been through it a thousand times... make a new thread to discuss please.
Originally Posted by
CocoChanel
That statement wasn't anywhere near that sentence!! I made that comment right after saying I don't bother to change a guys view on watching porn. Mostly because the finger always gets pointed at the female for having the issue. If a someone who says... I JUST CANT STOP WATCHING PORN... I think they are the one with the problem. So I see it as a weakness/addiciton for them if they can't stop themselves from watching it.
i guess i don't understand english anymore or those young girls can't put 2 and 2 together. in my understanding all of that is why you are having issues, but who cares? go and see counselor.
The male is a domestic animal which, if treated with firmness, can be trained to do most things