Hello, I am a 47 year old female, recently single after an 8 year relationship. I know that this relationship is over but certain things that occured at the end have left me wondering if I am losing my mind or seeing things from the wrong perspective, or if I am right, as I believe I am. I'm looking for answers to this as I don't want to make the same mistakes in any other relationship I may have in the future, so looking to better understand myself and my actions/reactions. I have never participated in any type of forum before and want to get unbiased opinions from people who are not family and friends, because they can be (due to their ties to me) unintentionally biased one way or the other.