if you're suggesting that females are the only ones that truly love (or seek love) and the rest of us wander blindly until someone we think looks ok ropes us in, then no, I don't think that at all.
one curse 'society'
has inflicted on us poor male saps is "being a man", by which I mean, being tough, showing little-to-no emotion, and being in control of every situation you are a part of. your question furthers this stupid notion, implying that men don't really wish for love, and that it's something mainly girls are interested in. we ALL want to find love, give love, and be loved. what that means for you, doesn't necessarily mean the same for me, and that's the beauty of it....we are all different, and somewhere out there in this big, crazy world is someone just as ****ed-up as you that will love, respect, and treat you the way you wish - and in return, you will shower them with all the lovey stuff that's inside you, and it will be beautiful.
*edit* btw, not saying
you're stupid. just the idea that men don't really care for love. I'm a man, and I love to love.