I've been seeing a guy (30 y/o) since July of this year...it's nothing serious, just a fling thing (benefits). Well, in this relationship (and I use that word lightly), you're not supposed to be emotionally attached (though we have expressed that we like each other--but that's it).
Okay: Ever since he and I got 'involved', now he's like....sensitive.
Like, he accuses me of 'not speaking to him' and such when I see him with his buddies, etc., but I'm thinking b/c of how our....'partnership' is, that wouldn't be a issue (yet he claims it isn't--yet tlks about it). Now, we're having little spats--and they're becoming frequent when we do tlk (almost every other day).....*sighs*
LOL--I hope I'm making sense. I guess what I want to know is: What's his problem????? Is he starting to "develop feelings"? To me, it doesn't seem that way, but his behavior as of late is making me think twice...
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27-11-09, 11:45 PM #1
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GUYS: What Is Going On With Him..?
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27-11-09, 11:56 PM #2
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He's "being a girl" about it. His emotions came into play.
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28-11-09, 12:03 AM #3
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Basically he is now starting to show his insecurities.... Unfortunatley despite you not planning it to go that way he is becoming attached.
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28-11-09, 12:43 AM #4
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I'm new to this "FWB" thing--but I was always told that feelings are not part of the deal. Initially, he was quite serious about 'catching feelings'....that if either of us (and he meant ME mostly, lol) were to do so--jump ship. Well--if that's his case...........shouldn't he jump ship/state that he doesn't want this to continue?
Do guys do that? LOL
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28-11-09, 01:16 AM #5
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emotions always create drama in fwb situations. i guess there are some rare situations where this is not the case, but someone usually ends up getting hurt.
why are you doing fwb? do you really not have feelings for this person?baby ya hustle. but me i hustle harder.
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28-11-09, 01:21 AM #6
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Originally Posted by misombra
Yes....but circumstances (his) aren't allowing us to be 'together' together. And I don't know what those "circumstances" are.
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29-11-09, 12:23 AM #7
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Well, if you don't know much about 'his' circumstance, how can you expect us to have any idea what his problem is.
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29-11-09, 02:49 AM #8
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Sounds like he might be married or something...
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