what was he thinking

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[chump4u]

I had dated this guy for three times, the last date ended up with a passionate kiss and I stopped it at that point. from a girl's instinct, I think he wanted sex. but it was too early in the game so I felt it wasnt appropriate. he's two years younger than me, maturity level is far from where I am. later I decided to keep distance from him for the feelings for him wasnt right. (So you ditched him...)

Ever since then, he had bothered my best friends numerous time, telling them how he felt, how he liked me so much. after some consequent harrassment by my friends... (And your friends told you you were stupid to ditch him...)

I made the move to call him up and ask him out. maybe I wasnt so determined to terminate anyways, so its my fault probably. he said he was busy, he'd call me back on second day. he never did.(So you were big enough to give him a "second chance"-- that he didn't ask for...)

I texted him once and that was it. And now its been almost four months, I never heard anything back from him (...And which he was smart enough to refuse...)

what was all that about?? apparently he had some kind of mental problems or what ? Big ego issues? (Yeah, it's all his problem. He's obviously insane not to jump at a second chance to be ditched by a bitch.)

If there's anything unclear about my additions to your post, I'll be glad to elaborate in greater detail for you.

[don'tcry]

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If there's anything unclear about my additions to your post, I'll be glad to elaborate in greater detail for you.

[Primo]

Maybe when you asked him out the second time, he could sense that your heart wasn't into it and it wasn't sincere. That would be my guess...

Btw, I don't believe for a second that your ego, not his, didn't get bruised. If it wasn't there's no way you'd even be thinking about it or him a week later, let alone 4 months...so what's the deal with that?

[smitty]

wow i was just thinking what chump4u wrote.

[lahnnabell]

I think I agree with Primo. Sounds like after you avoided him for a bit, then only asked him back out after being prompted by your friends that he decided to cut his losses. Sounds like you weren't too invested in the first place, so don't worry about it.

[qwertz]

what does it matter...the fact that you said this "he's two years younger than me, maturity level is far from where I am." is enough.

[don'tcry]

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wow i was just thinking what chump4u wrote.

[don'tcry]

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Maybe when you asked him out the second time, he could sense that your heart wasn't into it and it wasn't sincere. That would be my guess...

Btw, I don't believe for a second that your ego, not his, didn't get bruised. If it wasn't there's no way you'd even be thinking about it or him a week later, let alone 4 months...so what's the deal with that?

[don'tcry]

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what does it matter...the fact that you said this "he's two years younger than me, maturity level is far from where I am." is enough.

[don'tcry]

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I think I agree with Primo. Sounds like after you avoided him for a bit, then only asked him back out after being prompted by your friends that he decided to cut his losses. Sounds like you weren't too invested in the first place, so don't worry about it.

[qwertz]

there is your answer...he realised he wasnt going to get an easy lay so moved on to an easier catch. I wouldnt worry about it.

[don'tcry]

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there is your answer...he realised he wasnt going to get an easy lay so moved on to an easier catch. I wouldnt worry about it.

[carl1222]

You avoid him, without explanation, after three dates and now he isn't responding to your attempt to go out with him again. And you believe it's because all he wanted was to get laid and you said no?? You HAVE to be kiddding!

If you aren't interested in him, then leave him alone. If you are interested in him, then act like it ... starting with an apology for blowing him off for no reason.

Carl.