
Originally Posted by
Kit Kat
I don't really have a question here. Mostly I just want to talk to someone since I can't talk to any of my friends about this. I've already made a decision but I guess a little advice wouldn't kill me.
I'm in love with this guy. He's very special to me and I can't express the feeling I have when I see him. He tells me he loves me in return and we've kissed a bit and he's asked that we be more intimate though we haven't (just so you know). But the problem is...you guessed it! He has a girlfriend. An even bigger problem you ask? Right again, his girlfriend is a good friend of mine. Isn't life a bitch
But then again he also gets upset when he wants me to be intimate with him and I tell him no because of his gf. He gets quiet and angry like it's all my fault which makes me think again that he just wants a little dangerous exciting sex on the side.
I'm sorry to say this, but you really brought this upon yourself. What did you expect? The guy has a gf, why did you allow yourself to be put in this situation in the first place?
I know it must very painful and very sad what you are going through, but a big chunk of what happened is a direct consequence of your own actions. This is probably not something that you want to hear, but consider what you are going through right now as a punishment for your own actions that will hopefully guide you towards wiser decisions in the future.
Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
Towards the sun, carry your name
In warm hands you are given
Ask the wind for the way
Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
Accept all as it is and do not blame
God or the Devil
~Born to Live - Mavrik~