Shy Girl Need Help!

[Syph]

Hello all,

It has been a week since I have got this girl's number. We have exchanged about 15 texts over 7 days.

I have given her a compliment here and there and although she was busy this week to go for a 'friendly get-to-know" coffee and has left some encouraging 'x' at the end of texts.

Should I organise something for next week? Should I start hanging around her between lessons (I'm in college).

Is she interested?

Thanks

[Gigabitch]

You should made a decisive move toward dating immediately. You're hovering on the edge of the Friend Zone.

[Syph]

You should made a decisive move toward dating immediately. You're hovering on the edge of the Friend Zone.

Really? I hardly see her. Text is our prime communication, she doesn't hang around to chat after lessons, which I dismissed as her social life.

Not to mention she doesn't seem to have had any recent boyfriends. I don't want to scare her off.

How would you suggest I make a move? How do I step it up?

[Gigabitch]

Ask her out. Take her out for something casual, like a coffee or something and make sure you pay for it. That's a dating thing to do.

[Syph]

Ask her out. Take her out for something casual, like a coffee or something and make sure you pay for it. That's a dating thing to do.

It's easy to say. What the hell do I say though?

Miscommunication has led to failure. 'will you go out with me?' is cheesy. I need to make sure that the girl gets the picture.

Previous lines I've used include:

Fancy getting a coffee after college?

I'm going up to town after college. You can come if you want?

etc. etc.

[Gigabitch]

I'm going up to town after college. You can come if you want?

No.

"I'm going up to town after college. There's this little place that has the best falafel. You should come with me."

[Syph]

No.

"I'm going up to town after college. There's this little place that has the best falafel. You should come with me."

Tomorrow face to face? or by text?

[Gigabitch]

Face to face. You have a good face. You should use it.

[Syph]

Face to face. You have a good face. You should use it.

GB, you are a charmer!

How about this:

"Hey, I'm going up to town next week and I want to take you out. Do you like coffee?"

I'm lacking a bit of confidence at the moment as I have always failed to get a date. Facebook, easy. Numbers, easy. Date, hard...

[Gigabitch]

That's ideal. Do that.

[Syph]

That's ideal. Do that.

Thanks GB!

[Syph]

I did the deed and got a "Yes, maybe." Should I be worried?

I haven't got a massive amount of hope on this one. Too little too late.

[Gigabitch]

The door is still open. Don't walk away yet.