Did I Break It...?

[qwertz]

ah no quite true chump, i much prefer the real thing.

[Heratriumphant]

<sigh>

Chump, go read my post again and leave your assumptions out of it this time.

[lilly1185]

I agree that sex isn't always available.

For example, I can only get out a handful of times a week. I have to:
Be off of work
Make sure bf is free (he works at 6a)
Put son to bed
Get mum/brother/sister to watch son
This usually ends up at me leaving at 10p, and not returning home until 1a. 3 times a week do I see him max. So I need something to fill the time in.

[bluesummer]

Rather than worry about your little electronic toy, maybe you should be more receptive to actual sex. JMO. If you need something like that to "O", then the problem may be elsewhere.

Receptive to sex? Hardly a problem. I'm willing to bet I get laid more than most people on this board (only with one person). Oh, and vibrators aren't always JUST for alone time.

I've found it justs takes so much more WORK to get me there than before (I think that's what lilly is saying too). Ten years ago, I could get off from having a dirty thought.

[vashti]

Although having a toy like the one posted earlier certainly piques my interest, I don't think I'd ever buy one. I can't imagine a male could compete with something like that, and I wouldn't want to desensitize myself...

[IndiReloaded]

Toys are fine and don't take away from regular sex. But those rabbits look crazy. Like a jedi lightsabre with tumours.

[Perryville]

Intimidated? Hardly. I feel that any artificial "aid", to sexual gratification, whether it be a dildo, porn or "real", doll points out the inadequacies of the person using the aid, and not any potential partner. If any person, has so little self-control, that he or she "must", have instant gratification, and cannot wait until they are with another human, the problem lies within their own skewed sexual/emotional state. JMHO

[vashti]

Intimidated? Hardly. I feel that any artificial "aid", to sexual gratification, whether it be a dildo, porn or "real", doll points out the inadequacies of the person using the aid, and not any potential partner. If any person, has so little self-control, that he or she "must", have instant gratification, and cannot wait until they are with another human, the problem lies within their own skewed sexual/emotional state. JMHO

Eh, I disagree, mostly because people have no control over their hormones.

[bluesummer]

Perryville - I hardly think that's skewed or a problem, many sexually healthy people use what you like to label as aids. Sometimes it's fun to bring in things other than body parts. We call them toys for a reason.

Your 'opinion' is coming dangerously close to sounding judgemental.

[Perryville]

Vash, people have no control over their hormones,but they DO have control over the activity(s) they perform. I also understand that many very lonely/damaged people need sex toys for sexual fullfillment, but they should be trying to change the issues within themselves, instead of blaming the other gender, or worrying about the batteries in the vibrator or artificial pu**y.

[bluesummer]

Okay, what? Are you suggesting that people that use these things are...lonely or damaged? Tell me you're kidding.

[Perryville]

Bluesummer, we all judge things according to our own experiences. I dated a girl for a couple of weeks, when she showed me this enormous dildo. It was the "king Kong", model. 18" long and 4" in diameter. I'm a fairly large man I'm (bigger than my hat size (7 1/2) and smaller than my shoe size (11") but she complained that no man could satisfy her, then proceeded to stuff this thing into her, pretty much all the way. Now, where does the problem lie? Men or her own issues?

[vashti]

not everyone is available for relationships, for whatever reason. Do you really think it better they abstain from behaviors that may soothe the hormones enough that may allow them to make wise choices, rather than settle for the first available thing that may get them off?

[Sanctuary]

Intimidated? Hardly. I feel that any artificial "aid", to sexual gratification, whether it be a dildo, porn or "real", doll points out the inadequacies of the person using the aid, and not any potential partner. If any person, has so little self-control, that he or she "must", have instant gratification, and cannot wait until they are with another human, the problem lies within their own skewed sexual/emotional state. JMHO

That's a pretty narrow assumption to make.

Second time I'm quoting this guy on the forums:

"Every man takes the limits of his own field of vision for the limits of the world." - Arthur Schopenhauer

[bluesummer]

Perryville - Okay, well that's just weird. Obviously that's her own issue.

If I've got naked man next to me, I'm going to take that over anything, anytime.