Falling for a "Provider"

[hustla443]

Now this is going to be interesting, unacceptable to some but whatever my thoughts are mine and my feelings are the same.

I met a young lady via the internet, figured I would turn to new options, and we went out an are having a lot of fun. The twist however she is a service provider if you know what I mean. For those of you that don't well i guess you should just read something else. Here in lies my dilema I really like her an according to her she really likes me. I just can't allow myself to be serious about her due to her choosen profession. Now we have discussed the future and if things were to get serious then she says she would quit. Now me being the type of person I am how someone gets there money really makes no difference to me it is what it is out here and sometimes you have to hustle. My problem is should I allow myself to get serious about her or should I just leave this alone. Other than the profession I have no issues but I think I am really falling for her

[IndiReloaded]

but whatever my thoughts are mine and my feelings are the same.

My problem is should I allow myself to get serious about her or should I just leave this alone.

Sorry fella you came to the wrong forum. Here, we give true advice whether you like it or not. You want to go here:

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[hustla443]

true advice is what I'm looking for not what people think i want to hear i'm tired of people telling me what they think i want to hear which is why i turned to the internet. I left out one thing I was never a client i found out when we went out for the first time she has been nothing but honest with me

[Primo]

Dude, I'm still pretty open minded and when I was younger pretty wild too. Maybe you've never been around the industry or these types of women/people before, but I would never have even dated a stripper, let alone entertain the thought of getting to know an escort.

Someone has to be completely devoid of self esteem to go there imo, sorry.

[Sanctuary]

Look, if you really like her and you don't think you can find anyone better then it's not my place to tell you what to do. I'd like to say that you shouldn't judge people by what they do but 'providers' tend to be messed up in the head (not that I'm sayin this girl is), so just know what you're getting yourself into if you gonna commit to this girl.

[Primo]

You could probably find a decent girl who strips, if you're ok with it. Or maybe she'd quit the biz to start a relationship. But EVERY escort I've ever been around, are either emotionally disturbed or addicts. I guess they eventually need love to, but it's not for a man who has anything going on in his life to pursue imo.

[misombra]

i have seen those girls turn the nicest guy into the coldest jerk.

[IndiReloaded]

Emotional black holes. Suitable for guys trying to ignore their own issues by saving someone else. White Knight syndrome.

Have a read, H, this sounds like could be you:

[url]http://www.loveforum.net/love-advice-forum/26633-description-shining-knight-syndrome.html[/url]