What's going on??

[beachbum1122]

Hey so I need advice on my current situation. This year in June my boyfriend and I of a year and a half broke up because of our fighting and my trust issues. Over the summer we both got together with other people and rarely talked. There was a point in which I tried to get back together but he only told me about his new girl and how awesome she was. I figured there was no chance and started dating someone else. As soon as this happened he confessed he was still in love with me and would come over and cry his eyes out telling me how he had made a mistake and would always love me. My then relationship was over almost as soon as it started. Once we were both single we continued to talk but he was still talking to other girls saying we would work things out as we went. I would sleep over his house on weekends and we hungout occasionaly. We still said I love you and it was if we were back to normal. Then one night he gave me a diamond ring and said it was a promise ring he purchased for me when he still wanted to get back together but he wasn't sure what he wanted now. Not long later I made the mistake of accusing him of lying about something that happened a year earlier. Apparently that was the last straw for him and he told me not to speak to him anymore. I continued to bog him down with calls and texts to which many I got no response. I then found out he was together with someone new. I finally stopped and a few nights later he texted me the lyrics to part of a Jason Aldean song, so I asked about the new girl and he went on to tell me how awesome she was how much he loved her family and how he didnt need me anymore, etc. ...once again as if to rub it in my face. So I finally gave up. Also, he ironically used to talk about how annoying this new girl was and seems to be suddenly head over heals for her. For some reason really wants to be exclusive with her and has already wrote her love notes which I find kind of strange. I have seen him twice since he told me to stop and neither of us has said or done anything. I just want to know what do I do? and what is he thinking?? Thanks!

[CAM]

Well, you sound young-ish. You know what to do...just be nice, not clingy. Go on with your dating life. Keep in touch with him. You never know, things may rekindle.

[kms]

I think you should move on. He's just stringing you along. He'll throw you a bone every once in a while so that you can be his plan B whenever things don't work out with whatever girl he is currently with. If a guy is going to treat you like that (comparing you to her and making you feel bad), he definitely doesn't respect you or even care about you.