Need Advice

[Gareth]

I actually had alot to say about this, but reading some other threads it seems i just have a classic case of the friend zone, We've been friends for a long time and we both have very similar intrests. She knows i love her but she just got out of a relationship with her ex and is looking for a shoulder to lean on not another relationship. She sends me hints all the time though, we text almost all day everyday and she'll usally tell me about how much she misses me or how much she wants me their with her. I dont know where to go from here, Do i just be the helpfull friend. Do i back off and give her space or do i keep playing romeo.

Sombody give me advice Please.

[babyjam]

Hi there...

I think i can relate to your situation being the girl you are talking about. My boy friend just broke up with me lately, and its really bringing the hell out of me. Now adays, i'm trying to find someone whom I can talk to, someone I can share my life again. But then, the feeling for my x is still there. Though I'm already with someone else, I'm still thinking how I wish he's the one I'm talking to right now. Do you get the point?

Im not saying that your relationship with her will not go anywhere, I just want you to be conscious of your actions. Don't let yourself fall for her even more. Know your place, and be a friend for now. I know its hard to control your emotions, but then, if you can ask her about how she really feels for you, then it will be better...

hope i helped... ♥

[Gareth]

Thanks, that actually makes sence. I will be a good friend for her and if/when she becomes ready then ill take it from their.