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    I like her, how can I find out if she likes me back?

    So lately I've been interested in a girl in my class. She joined my class about a year ago and she was obviously interested in me, she showed every possible sign. But she's quite shy and I am too so we barely even talked. Lately she hasn't been as interested but still when I look at her on the other side of the room she looks back and smiles most of the time. Today both of us were waiting for a teacher to arrive (only the two of us) so we small talked for a while or so. I can still feel some interest from her, but it's difficult - we have a lot of exams for the next few weeks so none of us will have much spare time to get to know each other.

    She's from another country and interracial relationships are looked very down on here, there's a lot of racism here (she has a darker skin color, I'm white while she's from Persia I think). Would there be a culture crash? Also I often see her talking on the cell phone 8when not in class), she speaks Persian but I can't nderstand it. Could she been talking to her bf, if she ahs one?

    What should I do? I want her, but I'm a bit unsure on how she feels.

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    Maybe she's talking to her parents, there's war back in Iran/Persia.
    Tell her how you feel, that's the only way. Don't be a spy/Sherlock Holmes
    since that can only drag you to hell.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Deus_Ex_Machina View Post
    Maybe she's talking to her parents, there's war back in Iran/Persia.
    Tell her how you feel, that's the only way. Don't be a spy/Sherlock Holmes
    since that can only drag you to hell.
    Well she speaks our language well so i think she was brought up around here. Besides, wouldn't it be very expensive to call from Europe to iran all the time?

    It's difficult to know when to talk to her... we won't see each other again this week and enxt week we both have 3 exams. After that there's only 2 more days before Christmas break. Should I talk to her then? How can i express myself?

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    Any help people?

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    Doesn't anyone have any tips?

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    Quote Originally Posted by GSAA View Post
    Doesn't anyone have any tips?
    Unfortunately Deux ex Machina has the only reasonable "tip". If you can't muster the courage to just talk openly to her then there is no magic way around it.

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    But what if she has a bf? I'll sound like a fool and she'll probably tell everyone else. :S

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    Dude, how old are you, 12? Man-up and ask her out for coffee or something. Christ, do you want somebody else to do it for you? And quit whining, if she has a BF, she will tell you.

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    She's probably talking Farsi to her parents, thats what second generation immigrants do, they speak their parent's language at home and their country's language at work/school.

    The only way to find out is to make a move: grow some nuts.
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