Of course it's complicated!

**Gigabitch** · 07-10-09, 06:29 AM

Um, Tone. If her marriage is annulled, what does that make her son? Nonexistent?

**misombra** · 07-10-09, 12:44 PM

and um, is there a reason you haven't told us how old she is???

**IndiReloaded** · 07-10-09, 01:29 PM

Don't get involved, Tone. She shouldn't be staying with you.

Be her *distant* friend. Encourage her to get support from her family. Let her pick herself up out of her bad marriage. She needs to come to you with dignity, not from a dumpster. You know the story. In the end, she will hate you for seeing her at her lowest.

An old reminder: The greatest gift you can ever give someone is themselves.

Understand?

**Gigabitch** · 08-10-09, 12:57 AM

Originally Posted by IndiReloaded

Don't get involved, Tone. She shouldn't be staying with you.

Be her *distant* friend. Encourage her to get support from her family. Let her pick herself up out of her bad marriage. She needs to come to you with dignity, not from a dumpster. You know the story. In the end, she will hate you for seeing her at her lowest.

An old reminder: The greatest gift you can ever give someone is themselves.

Understand?

That might have been the gentlemanly thing to do BEFORE he put his dick in her. Now, she'll just feel abandoned and used. Right after you have sex with someone is a pretty cruel time to distance yourself.

**IndiReloaded** · 08-10-09, 06:52 AM

Oh. I missed that part. Thanks Giga.

I dunno what to say now, Tone. You're the 'other man'. She's really vulnerable to be doing this right now. Her falling for you is almost certainly b/c she's looking for a 'safe' place and you definitely project Shining Knight. Can't fault her taste, tho.

Protect yourself. Don't assume you are anything other than a rebound at this point. Don't fall for this gal if you can help it. Separate the sex from what you know is/isn't healthy.

If I were you, I'd still find a way (nicely) to put the brakes on your budding relationship until things are sorted out w/her ex. Born in drama will end in drama, otherwise.

**Tone** · 12-12-09, 01:35 AM

You guys were all rigggggggggght..

Few weeks ago she got all confused over her feelings for her ex... talked about moving back in w/ him etc etc.. was a ****ing nightmare that we are over with finally.. for now at least.

sighhhhhh

**IndiReloaded** · 12-12-09, 01:37 AM

We still love you Tone. Live forever, learn everything.

**Perryville** · 12-12-09, 01:43 AM

Dude, WTF?? Aren't you the same guy that is worrying about his GF lying in the other post?

**NeoSeminole** · 12-12-09, 01:45 AM

haha, how did I miss this thread before? You were the classic 'rebound guy.' The signs were all there. I'm surprised you allowed yourself to get attached. I would have just used her for a good time, and then kicked her ass to the curb.

**Tone** · 12-12-09, 01:46 AM

Yeah I know I'm a sucker.

**Tone** · 12-12-09, 01:47 AM

Originally Posted by Perryville

Dude, WTF?? Aren't you the same guy that is worrying about his GF lying in the other post?

Yeah this thread is old.

**IndiReloaded** · 12-12-09, 01:50 AM

Originally Posted by NeoSeminole

haha, how did I miss this thread before? You were the classic 'rebound guy.' The signs were all there. I'm surprised you allowed yourself to get attached. I would have just used her for a good time, and then kicked her ass to the curb.

Probably Tone^. Sorry.

**NeoSeminole** · 12-12-09, 01:54 AM

meh, I'm not here to make you feel worse. We all make mistakes.

look at this way: sometimes we have to take a step back to make a leap forward (i.e. running start for you literary challenged).

**Gigabitch** · 12-12-09, 02:02 AM

Damn, Tone. You always end up under the bus.

**bluesummer** · 12-12-09, 02:14 AM

I hate to say we told you so. Sorry buddy.....you deserve a nice girl. Next time, no women straight out of breakups, okay?

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