Can't Believe I'm Doing This But...

[AJG]

I guess there's a first time for everything and asking for advice on a website can be added to the list.

There's this female friend of mine, met her a few months ago when I started college (side note, staying home for college sucks lol) and maybe around late October we started talking a lot. It was mostly small talk at first but a couple weeks later she started asking me to hang out, pretty much begging to come to my house, go for rides with me in my car and stuff like that. So then a little after that the talking was starting to get a little more personal. Asking me if i'm a virgin (I am), if she's my type, and stuff like that. I'm not really sure if she's just flirtatious, but some of the stuff she says is a little odd lol. Basically the semester ended this week and I asked her if she wants to hang out over the break. She sends me texts like "chill and do w/e can mean me stealing your v-card ; )"

I'm kind of torn about whether i'm just looking too far into things.

Basically at first I didn't really think I liked her like that, but in the last couple weeks i've begun to realize that I have feelings for this girl beyond friendship and as I said want to know if maybe i'm looking too far into things. I plan on asking her if she feels the same way the next time I see her either way though. Trying doesn't hurt.

[Syph]

I plan on asking her if she feels the same way the next time I see her either way though. Trying doesn't hurt.

The f***?

Do it. She thinks your a numbskull. She's been hitting you over the head with a hammer.

Although she sounds desperate...

Dw about the net. I'm always coming back. Just wish I had an opportunity to learn like you, with a girl chasing you.

[shheadz]

It sounds to me like she's done everything to get your attention short of drawing you a sign that says "Ask me out!!". She's waiting for you to make the first move, so do it already.

[girl68]

SHE LIKES YOU NUMNUT!

Ask her out and hold her hand there's a start.

[AJG]

I'll take that as a "no, you're not reading too much into it dumbass" lol

[shheadz]

It's all good man. Ask her out on a real date. Good luck!

[girl68]

Kind of.

So yeah get that girl out! Sheesh!

[skratchmo]

I would just ask her out and when the time is right make a move for the first kiss. That will let her know what you're thinking.

[Gigabitch]

Tell her she cannot steal what is freely given.



Then jump on her.

[rateyes]

I guess there's a first time for everything and asking for advice on a website can be added to the list.

There's this female friend of mine, met her a few months ago when I started college (side note, staying home for college sucks lol) and maybe around late October we started talking a lot. It was mostly small talk at first but a couple weeks later she started asking me to hang out, pretty much begging to come to my house, go for rides with me in my car and stuff like that. So then a little after that the talking was starting to get a little more personal. Asking me if i'm a virgin (I am), if she's my type, and stuff like that. I'm not really sure if she's just flirtatious, but some of the stuff she says is a little odd lol. Basically the semester ended this week and I asked her if she wants to hang out over the break. She sends me texts like "chill and do w/e can mean me stealing your v-card ; )"

I'm kind of torn about whether i'm just looking too far into things.

Basically at first I didn't really think I liked her like that, but in the last couple weeks i've begun to realize that I have feelings for this girl beyond friendship and as I said want to know if maybe i'm looking too far into things. I plan on asking her if she feels the same way the next time I see her either way though. Trying doesn't hurt.

i dont think she can get any more blunt than that...

[AJG]

appreciate the responses