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    Do Women Purposely Sabotage Relationships?

    ... and if so, why?

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    Women don't do that; stupid bitches do though. lol

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    People sabotage relationships all the time, because:

    They're unhappy but have confrontation issues.

    They have abandonment issues.

    They have self esteem issues.

    They have committment issues.

    They have emotional intimacy issues.

    Notice a theme?

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    They're unhappy but have confrontation issues.

    They have abandonment issues.

    They have self esteem issues.

    They have committment issues.

    They have emotional intimacy issues.

    Notice a theme?
    Yeah, they all describe my ex.

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    not unless they have issues..like the ones already listed.
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    not unless they have issues
    My ex has a lot of self-esteem issues. I posted more @ [url]http://www.loveforum.net/broken-hearts-forum/36428-she-makes-worse-being-nice-2.html#post529325[/url]

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    Quote Originally Posted by Heratriumphant View Post
    People sabotage relationships all the time, because:

    They're unhappy but have confrontation issues.

    They have abandonment issues.

    They have self esteem issues.

    They have committment issues.

    They have emotional intimacy issues.

    Notice a theme?
    Yes. They have ISSUES. Sabotaging a relationship takes too much energy and time.

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    Yeah, don't just throw us females to the wolves. People, men and women, have a tendency to let their issues run their relationships, and therefore inadvertently sabotage things. It's not intentional, but people with the aforementioned issues tend to be selfish and needy and lack the skills to be giving and loving in a long-term relationship. Most of the relationship work ends being about dealing with one person's own issues, and less about growing together as partners.

    I say long-term because most of my relationships with men with issues started out wonderfully (best foot forward, of course) but definitely hit a consistent downward slope eventually. I find it usually takes a few break-ups, or one doozy of a break-up to inspire these people to want to better themselves.

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    I think women are not destroy it

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    both men and women are equally likely to sabotage a relationship.

    my ex-bf has heavy emotional baggage (enough to fill a cargo plane) and insecurity issues. one tries hard but the subconsciousness is quick to react with projections of the past if he is not careful and self-aware.
    Last edited by jsulley; 22-12-09 at 03:31 PM.

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