3/1.... help me plzzz

[nfatuation]

so first off i will just say before anyone else says it i am young(20) .. and little bit immature for this but...

theres three girls in my life..

1rst girl treats me so good and i she really cares about me but i dont have that strong feelings for her YET... i think she is just young(shes 23) when she says love though since she says she never felt this way with anyone before...i say i love her too but i dont really love her(not yet) i just dont want her out of my life... but she makes me feel so great and confident which is how i met my this other girl...

2nd girl is my girlfriend.. and everythings nice... shes really down for everything...we talk about everything... i dont know though we sleep together alot but afterwards i leave... i feel thats all thats left with us... she also recently just cheated but i don't want to lose her... she is out of my league and i feel i shouldn't let her go...

3rd girl was introduced to me at a party, and she was real cool but had a boyfriend... at that time and now im still with my gf but she doesnt know.. i see her again and she wasn't with her man anymore... so i told her i was single (i wasnt but was curious to what she would say) eventually we started hanging out... ALOT.. she is so amazing but she's older(she is 27 ive been 35 year old last year but not exclusive) and i fear that i am just a rebound...at the same time i want her so baddd..

Being with older woman doesn't scare me though since most relationships were with older.... plz help

[FullofSighs]

Well first of all you shouldn't cheat, it gives you a bad name. Second of all if your having sex with your current gf just to keep the relationship going then its come to an end. You two should just break up. Third, you should really retain from lying like that, just be honest if you have a gf or not and don't cheat, that will make you seem even more immature than you already are and its about time to stop being so immature. if you don't learn now, you will more than likely never learn when your older. And it sounds like the the first girl is the girl i would say to be with out of those 3. With your maturity level 27 is to old for you, the current gf you don't seem to love anymore, you just love the sex and don't want it to go away, and the first girl may be rushing things, but it also sounds like her maturity level is where yours is at.

[nfatuation]

Thanks for your input... hurt a little but i've heard that before... hehe... im not immature by no means its just that i dont want to be alone(i know something wrong with me)... but i disagree with you and im going break it off and go for the friend i met at the party... i can't let it go since i don't want to miss out on her...this girl i talk (best friend) to says that make me immature...HOW??? watever thanks for your input again...

[Sallyx]

if you two-time, then your gf doesn't mean much to you.

Dont go after another guys girlfriend, thats just unfair and not nice.

So personally I'd pick number 1. you're lucky that someone cares and treats you right.