How can I improve my chances with girls?

[GSAA]

Hey girls,

I need some tips on how to improve my chances with girls.

I'm quite good looking, if Brad Pitt is 10 I'm 7 IMO. Another thing is that I'm originally from Stockholm in Sweden, a quite big city with like 3 million people in the metro area, biggest city here in Northern Europe. I live right now in a small town (40.000 people) in neighbouring Norway. Let me tell you that in Norway people see up to Sweden, I guess it's the same thing as if a New Yorker went to a small town in Minnesota or smth at a night club. So if you were from a small town girl from the US, would you rather have a New Yorker to hit on or a local guy with about the same looks? I.e. can I use my Swedish heritage to impress the girls, do you think? Or does it sound stupid?

The only really bad thing about me is my lazy eye, the other eye is perfectly normal and I've heard from girls that I look good and that I have a cute face. Would you be attracted to a guy who has a laxy eye, but otherwise looks good and has good style?

If you were approached by three different guys at a night club, with about the same looks - one was very drunk, one just a little drunk and one was sober, who would you pick? Will my chances be better if I'm completely sober at the club?

The only major night club in this town has a bottom floor where people dance and socialize, and a top floor where people can relax in sofas or look down at the people who dance. If you were up there alone, relaxing, would you accept it if a guy came up to you and began asking you about your name etc and touching you?

When you're at the dance floor and you approach a guy, how would you like him to react? When I'm at the club I get approached by girls quite often, however they turn away after maybe half a minute. I usually dance a half metre or a metre away from them (I don't want to embarass them), is it acceptable if I dance closer, touch girls, hug them, maybe kiss them, when we dance?

Sorry for the long post, thank you very much for helping!

[Lexx]

. So if you were from a small town girl from the US, would you rather have a New Yorker to hit on or a local guy with about the same looks? I.e. can I use my Swedish heritage to impress the girls, do you think? Or does it sound stupid?
I wouldnt mind if he is from a big city or small city at all. I'm from a small city, and I already had boyfriends from my town, from the big city, and from other small towns a little far from mine and for last, I used to date a guy that lived on the beach. Maybe an different accent is good to call some attention to yourself, but after she knows you, what will count is your talk, if you're funny and most important FUN, if you know how to be pleasant without being boring or a pain in the ass. If you're pretty or not, only counts to the first impression, which is quick, your qualities as a person is the most important. So if you're looking for flings, and some kisses; accent, WELL DRESSED and appearance is ok.
pleaaaaaaaase, remember well dressed.. For me, i hate going out with guys that dont know how to match stuff and have bad taste. Or just use surf clothes like billabong and stuff, god thats awful... Polos, shirts, or v-neck t-shirts with the season colors, tight jeans (not too tight).. sweaters..

The only really bad thing about me is my lazy eye, the other eye is perfectly normal and I've heard from girls that I look good and that I have a cute face. Would you be attracted to a guy who has a laxy eye, but otherwise looks good and has good style?
What is a laxy eye?

If you were approached by three different guys at a night club, with about the same looks - one was very drunk, one just a little drunk and one was sober, who would you pick? Will my chances be better if I'm completely sober at the club?

The only major night club in this town has a bottom floor where people dance and socialize, and a top floor where people can relax in sofas or look down at the people who dance. If you were up there alone, relaxing, would you accept it if a guy came up to you and began asking you about your name etc and touching you?
Sure, if she doesnt want nothing to do with you, she'll just try to find something to get away of the conversation, If she does want something, the she will laugh, look at you all the time...

In a club, I really hate guys that come around touching without knowing you. In my view, the best way to approach a girl is in the bar, offer to pay a drink, and while she is drinking try some talk. Dont try to get to know her, she is there to dance and have fun, so talk about the club, her age, her name, say she has a pretty smile, but dont attack her while you do that, say in the ear but without touching her. If she anwsers you smiling, and asks you some stuff too, then you try to kiss her maybe dance with her first. Other way to approach is if you see she looking at you many times while she is dancing, than go talk to her, she probably is interested.

xoxo
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[Lexx]

ops forgot one question

If you were approached by three different guys at a night club, with about the same looks - one was very drunk, one just a little drunk and one was sober, who would you pick? Will my chances be better if I'm completely sober at the club?

SOBER of course. Drunk guys, for it doesnt matter how pretty they are, I send then away. You dont have to be literally sober, but dont mumble, or fall, just drink socially.

[GSAA]

Thanks for answering, BTW I meant a lazy eye.