Please just need some advice
Shes gone on vacation right now for 3 weeks and we both 23
I am a little confused. When I talk to my girlfriend she just doesnt seem as excited to talk to me. I am not sure if it is me, but I dont feel like she talks about the future as much, we used to talk about getting engaged. She asks me if im okay all the time and says she feels distant and is afraid we are going to drift and calls me 3x a day just to talk.
I don't really understand she seems to worry about us and us drifting. However she doesnt act affectionate, she doesnt talk about us, occasionally she will tell me how she is more than content with me, and wants to be with me forever. Yet she doesnt act like it, and its been going on for months.
I dont get it. I was going to ask her a serious question, pop the question. Now it doesnt seem like she is near as excited about it as me, we have talked about it before she has told me she is ready, yet now were in a dead zone, no talking about it, no excitement for months. I need a little encouragement to make a big decision like that and her acting unexcited kills it.
Maybe I am missing something, anyone?
Last edited by Zehx; 24-12-09 at 02:51 PM.
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