Christmas Gifts You've Given and Received

[Junket]

=/ Maybe he was just missing his Dad and he is upset or something. I'm trying not to be bothered by it.

You need to speak to a girl who gets treat right and is genuinely happy with her relationship to see what you're missing.

Like my girlfriend.

[Gribble]

Did he do anything for you? I mean, gifts aren't really that important. Did he make the occasion special? Dinner for two? A massage? A lazy day of cuddling?

[Cbrider]

I seriously can't believe some of the stuff I read that you have posted coco. You deserve SO much more.

When is this going to change ?

[CocoChanel]

No, he didn't do any of that Gribble. I didn't know if this was the right argument to start or what. I just told myself he is probably upset about his Dad, leave him alone. He didn't say too much on Christmas eve, he was pretty stand-offish. Christmas... he was only chipper once we got my parents house. He wasn't even chipper at his Aunt's house. He was acting as if he didn't want to be there, falling asleep and not talking much. When we got home... damn. Now that I think about he was being kind of cold. Maybe I should say something... or is it too late. Blah. I'm clueless.

[Gribble]

Coco.

Will you please lose this guy. You CAN do so much better. Even I, with all my commitment issues, have always found a way to make Christmas special for the women in my life. What kind of man all but ignores his fiance on Christmas? Even if he was feeling like shit he could have at least held you, told you he loved you and promised something when he was feeling better.

That's just low, babe.

[CocoChanel]

I don't know what to do though. He says it's my fault he acts the way he does. I'm trying to fix whatever it is I'm doing wrong but it's not working. And this is the best relationship I've been in. He doesn't hit me or force me to do things I don't want to do. He's just mean sometimes. Maybe he will feel better after the holiday goes away. And maybe it really is me that's the problem because when he is with his friends he is okay. What if this is better? My other relationship was worse.

[Petit Papillon]

Coco I don't wanna sound unfriendly but I don't feel sorry for You because it's Your fault. Actually You shouldn't be ranting about Your bf here because it's alll Your fault. EVERYBODY here told You to leave that ass long time ago,and You decided to feel sorry for Yourself instead.If You're naive ,cry to a wall.

[CocoChanel]

Coco I don't wanna sound unfriendly but I don't feel sorry for You because it's Your fault. Actually You shouldn't be ranting about Your bf here because it's alll Your fault. EVERYBODY here told You to leave that ass long time ago,and You decided to feel sorry for Yourself instead.If You're naive ,cry to a wall.

I didn't complain. Not here, Not even to him. And I agree. It is my fault. Anywho, thanks for repeating what I've already said.

[IndiReloaded]

You leave him, Coco. Its really as simple as following your feet. I'm inclined to agree with PP, people generally get what they deserve. If you think you deserve better, go find it.

[Petit Papillon]

I didn't complain. Not here, Not even to him. And I agree. It is my fault. Anywho, thanks for repeating what I've already said.

If You don't straight complain about him You always say something, so others will feel sorry for You and will complain about him for You, so You can feel like a victim again. Don't You feel like You're making this Pity party all the time? Do You enjoy when everybody says how poor You are? It seems so. But it doesn't mean it's good. Actually people should give You a hard time here so You understand how ridiculous You sound when You talk about Your 'relationship'. Stand beside Yourself and look at it as a third person. IT'S RIDICULOUS. YOU ARE RIDICULOUS. And really nobody should feel even a bit sorry for You as long as You really don't change Your silly behaviour.

[CocoChanel]

If You don't straight complain about him You always say something, so others will feel sorry for You and will complain about him for You, so You can feel like a victim again. Don't You feel like You're making this Pity party all the time? Do You enjoy when everybody says how poor You are? It seems so. But it doesn't mean it's good. Actually people should give You a hard time here so You understand how ridiculous You sound when You talk about Your 'relationship'. Stand beside Yourself and look at it as a third person. IT'S RIDICULOUS. YOU ARE RIDICULOUS. And really nobody should feel even a bit sorry for You as long as You really don't change Your silly behaviour.

Oh okay. Alright.

[Petit Papillon]

Oh okay. Alright.

Really ,no comments...

[CocoChanel]

Nope, no comments at all.

[Junket]

So my g/f went shopping with the 150 dollar gift card I got her, that also came with 3, 25 dollar off every 50 dollars spent, so she really got an extra 75 dollars on top of that gift card.

She's really happy with everything she got but one dress that doesn't quite fit her body right. She has really wide hips and it hikes the dress up pretty high in the back which is less than flattering. So she'll probably take that one back.

She still needs to use the other gift card to go get herself some shoes.

Some of you might've remembered me complaining about her wardrobe before, and I think this has been a positive way of addressing it.

[CocoChanel]

So my g/f went shopping with the 150 dollar gift card I got her, that also came with 3, 25 dollar off every 50 dollars spent, so she really got an extra 75 dollars on top of that gift card.

She's really happy with everything she got but one dress that doesn't quite fit her body right. She has really wide hips and it hikes the dress up pretty high in the back which is less than flattering. So she'll probably take that one back.

She still needs to use the other gift card to go get herself some shoes.

Some of you might've remembered me complaining about her wardrobe before, and I think this has been a positive way of addressing it.

Yeah I do remember you complaining about that. That was really a clever and respectful to do it. I agree!