I've known my boyfriend for about a year now but we've only spent two weeks of time together.. ( we met online and he came to visit me in Japan )
When he was here,things went great and we had a great time together but soon after due to his visa condition and flight ticket, he had to leave here.. after he went back home, we've talked via messenger constantly.. We don't talk about marriage but he's coming back to me in April and he's planning to stay here for 3months... during his stay, I guess we will talk about what we want as a next step ..
Before he left Japan, he actually said that he loves me and now, he says that he misses me more and more. He doesn't really say he loves me so often but he does once in a while.. And I believe him.
Well,the reason why I'm posting this on 1st of Jan is that my doubt toward him is growing, unfortunately. Today, I stumbled into this football forum he is into very much.. Obviously, almost all the users in the forum are "tough guys" or "tough guy wannabees" I guess. Since they can't really see who're talking, they talk bluntly.. And I happened to find his posts under the "love relationship" category.. and he wrote there that "I'm coming back to Japan to see someone" and some guy asked him if the person is his love interest, then he replied , "I will know if she's my love interest when I come back to her"...... Ok.... I was quite shocked to read the posts..
We only had a short period of time together but I thought he would never lie.. I mean, he's quite extreme and he's not a kind of person who lies, or flatters somebody.. He says what he thinks and he's very logical. (at least, I thought so..) I still give credit to him as he'll give up everything and come back to me.. but honestly, I'm confused.
Do men talk differently once they are out with their dude friends?
sigh.. I don't know
anyway, thanks for reading this and I would appreciate any comments.