Good for you, lahnna.
I wish more guys knew just how important the clit is. It, not the vagina, is the primary source of orgasms for the majority of women. Not that they can't come vaginally, though, but perhaps not before coming (or at least being stimulated) via the clitoris.
Another thing guys need to know is that it's important to turn her whole body on, not just her boobs and p***y. I read a discussion a few years ago, not here, where this guy finished in his wife in about two minutes. Two minutes! That's hardly enough time for me to get all the clothes off.