So she's told me she likes having sex. But when I go to initiate it (it being foreplay) she blows me off (in a very polite way) by just saying lets get up, or she giggles and says it tickles and pushes away. Now is it that she isn't interested in having sex. Or is it because she doesn't realise what I'm trying to do. Or is it something I am doing that could be done differently/better to get her in the mood?
There is a problem that she recognises and admits too, that is she is "unresponsive" barely affectionate, not showing much towards me at all. She doesn't know why she is like this and she's told me she wish she wasn't. She wish she could jump all over me but she just can't.
In the last few times we have had sex a couple of those times was just because she had a couple of drinks and she undressed in front of me (unusual because she normally doesn't like to be seen naked unless in the shower or while having sex) and just looks at me with those dirty eyes. This is what I want, but I don't want it alcohol driven as it seems unnatural. The other times it was in the morning and I persisted with the foreplay until she wanted me in her.
She really seems to enjoy the act and she say she does too. So why does she not seem to want to do it?
We have been together for five and a half months btw.