Hey guys
So as you may know I'm going through a horrible break up.
My gf broke up with me 3 days ago on Thursday. We were together for a year and a half.
My ultimate goal is to get her back.
Her motives was that she just doesn't want to be held back anymore and that she really just wants the freedom to go out with her friends and do whatever. I would always be really selfish when she wanted to just be away from me and with her friends.( I feel this was a huge problem in our relationship) she also said she doesnt want to look back on her life and see her as the girl who always had a bf and never really had any friends.
Another problem is that I would get jealous really easy and I would always make sure she knew ( even if she is just talking to another Guy) Another horrible problem in our relationship.
When she broke up with me she said she still wanted to be my friend. (I'm guessing this is a good thing?)
While we were dating, we basically saw each other everyday. She pretty much lived at my house. We always told each we loved each other and we basically planned our entire life together. This was the happiest times of my life. Is it bad to see each other as often as we did?
On Thursday and Friday morning I was in "panic mode". I hit her with text message terrorism and drunk dialing. ( even tho I wasn't drunk)
I have cut off all contact since Friday morning. I plan on not contacting her for at least 2 or 3 weeks. Is that too short of time?
When I do contact her I plan on sending her the "second chance letter"
Also, I think you should know that she is a really strong person and has been through a lot in her life. I dont see her texting me or calling me because she feels she made a mistake. When she does something she is always set on her decision and hardly ever changes her mind.
THANK YOU SO MUCH IN ADVANCE.