You cant make somebody fall in love with you.
With the idea of a "player", she's in love with the person she thinks you are, not the real you.
Anyway you've only been together for two months, my guess is that your relationship is going just fine so stop worrying about love, relax and enjoy it.
"When I was 4 years old, they tried to test my IQ.
They showed me this picture of 3 oranges and a
pear. They asked me which one was different and
did not belong. They taught me different was
wrong."
- Ani DiFranco -