So..I went out to dinner last night with the same quy whose sexuality I was questioning in the "could he be gay" thread. It was our third date. I was having a good time until he brought up the fact that earlier in the day when he was filling out some paperwork for a program at his gym he had put me down as his emergency contact.
Did I mention this was our third date? We have not even had sex yet. We have talked on the phone several times between dates, but I don't feel like we are anywhere remotely near the emergency contact person commitment stage. What if something happens to him? I don't even know his mother's name, but I am going to call her and tell her that her son is dead?
I see this as a huge red flag. My friends tell me that I am overreacting and should give him a second chance. Am I strange to think that he is a nutcase for doing this?