So, well, hello everyone.
First of all, let me start by saying I'm french so some grammar error might occur throughout the post (:
So I won't say directly my age or the age of the girl... lets just say I am older than her by about 3 years.
The girl who I am having trouble with: She's, again, three years or so younger than me (although age is only a number for me). Personality wise she speaks her mind; apparently does not fall for guys easily. She is honest, and she can take, if I can say, guys joke without being offended but will actually laugh along.
Me: I hmm so, I love sport. I believe in treating girls... hmm how to say... in a very good way (being a gentleman..)... I have a tendency to overreact. I speak my mind as I cannot keep a problem inside me, I have to talk about it. Errr what else, I can be a tiny jealous but I do not control anyone as I believe you should treat other based on how you would want to be treated.
Now the story:
I've been friend with her for what... 6 months, finally asked her out and all, we were going out until what... yesterday? for about two weeks. Thing is, she does not feel ready for a boyfriend ( I totally understand). In no way I want to push her into a relationship because after all I don't want her to be unhappy with me.
My question is this, I love her and could wait for her as I really do not mind waiting, but I have a hard time trusting girls. She says she loves me and will still love me if I still talk to her when she will be ready ( she gives it a year or so). I talked to her about it. What bothers me is the fact that over a year a person do change and that her feeling might change although, she said that her feelings won't change but then again, I have a hard time trusting girl and I just want to get a general opinion on this.
The other little problem on my side is that, I would stay open minded for other girls that would cross my path although, I am a person who is either fully involve or not at all. Meaning, I love this girl and getting over her would take time for me, I could say a lot of time ( I know myself in the end haha). Thus, meeting other girl or waiting for her, this is where I am stuck. I can't do both really, its something I cannot do, its against what I "believe" in.
Anyway to make a short story I am wondering if i should wait for her and BELIEVE her or just get over her as I will not have a lot of chance ending up with her.