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    I don't know what he's thinking o.o

    So the story is pretty much over. Thanks for all the advice.
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    I'm confused about the part where they were on a relationship break but he is still informing her about his every move (i.e. having sex with you).

    As long as he is still talking with his ex and she's still giving him the business, what are you really to him? If he wanted to be with you, and that is possible because you want to be with him, he would be kicking her to the curb and giving you his full energy and attention.

    You like him, he did a nice thing for you by driving you to the train station, but other than that, it's hard to say that a relationship can be based on this, with him still on a relationship break and still talking to his "ex". He needs to really figure out what he wants and it's important you don't get caught up too much before he all the sudden decides to leave you for his ex down the line.
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    I think you're right. I'll try not to get too involved, too bad my heart doesn't always seem to listen to what I say to it... I guess he needs to stop being involved with his ex before I jump to conclusions >.<
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    Make him cut ties with the ex....
    Do this as a friend and as a future girlfriend
    It will be much better for him... in every aspect of his life

    Go visit him asap, try some more convincing (sex)... he'll change his mind

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    Thanks
    Your post gave me courage. I will go there as soon as my schedule will allow me.
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    Thanks for all your help. The story is over atm.
    Last edited by sAsAk1; 09-03-10 at 10:58 PM. Reason: the end
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    This hard. If hes still inlove with the girl then he will go back to her. I think you were a rebound. The best thing to do is play hard to get.

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    So the story is pretty much over and thanks again for all the advice.
    Last edited by sAsAk1; 09-03-10 at 10:59 PM. Reason: story done
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    He feels guilty about sleeping with you and messing up your feelings, and then you are going to stay and sleep with him? He is trying to make it up to you by being a good friend? Nothing about this is sitting well with me...
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    Oh I might be totally wrong I have no idea what's going on o.O I'm just trying to say what I think he's thinking but like I said I'm hopeless when it comes to the guy I like, I can't be objective at all.

    EDIT: I had a nightmare about him last night. I dreamed that he was a really bad guy and killed like 20 people with cyanide and then I talked to him and he offered me gum I took it and pretended to eat it. I saw that he had pushed some sort of small pill in the gum so I started pretending to feel sick and throw up. I asked him in my most dramatic voice: "What did you do to me?" and he said: "I put cyanide in your gum hahahaha (Evil laugh)" Then I straightened up and said well thanks for that information and at that moment the police came in and arrested him.

    I admit this sounds like a lame Sherlock Holmes plot... But to me it seemed pretty real until I woke up o.o
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    Quote Originally Posted by Pettit-Papillon View Post
    Dreams are the movies ,and our brains are the directors...
    You don't belive that dreams have any 'special powers' ,right?
    No I don't think that they have 'special powers' I do believe however that my brain is trying to sort things out by putting things into place through dreams and that I dream about things that keep me occupied... I just wonder what it is that my subconscious mind has been thinking about.
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    Ok. So maybe You translate this dream to me. What my brain wanted to tell me showing a mini t-rex on the street and George Clooney cleaning up the street in the same dream? I think it's because I saw George Clooney Nespresso advertisment the other day and was reading something about dinosaurs

    Dreams are funny sometimes, but I'd rather not look deeper into their meanings...I think there are no

    Focus on the facts and reality . Don't base Your judgments on Your dreams or something... IMO
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    That's a funny dream

    No, I won't. This matter is too important to me to let it be decided by a dream

    I think I'm going to stop breaking my head over this for a while. (Or at least try)
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