What makes girls horny?

[CAM]

At 20, alcohol is pretty much tops, as you already know. Keep it going with that.

I miss the days in college when it was so easy meeting girls by going to bars, getting drunk and drunkenly picking them up and hooking up.

At 40+, I wonder why I wasted time picking up girls and having sex with them. Easy answer: because I wanted to be like my friends who were getting laid, and because my hormones said, "Just do it, dude!" It certainly wasn't my brain that was telling me anything--it was on hiatus.

While there are some girls who hook up without any emotional attachment whatsoever (more today than in the past), I look back and discover that while their mouths were saying "let's just **** around" in their minds, many of the women saw sex as sign that I liked them and wanted a relationship.

Its too easy to hurt someone doing that...you never know which one is having sex because her friends are doing it (but secretly, she wants something real). It certainly can't be determined by their enthusiasm for sex or even the fact that they've got some incredibly hot body. You just never know.

Whatever it takes to get them horny (or not), spend a bit more time thinking about the aftermath. Because most likely, there will be an aftermath.

[lastwish]

It is "security" Money is a form of security. Good health, virility, strength, manliness...these can also a turn-on for women.

You are right; it is about security. When a man shows how committed and caring he is, it gives a women a sense of security.

[all alone]

I am getting horny from the smell of men! It drives me crazy! Sure I mean the smell of good perfume!

smell is the sense most tied to memory.. so guys if you happen to be wearing cologne and your give her a night to remember, the next time you wear the same scent she will be all over you

[CAM]

Yes, cologne does help. Having noticed the state of most young guys these days, bathing, oral hygiene, and running comb through one's hair (which often needs cutting)...and for the guys, try a razor to trim yourself out of the Stone Age.

As I am interested in women, I find that a comb would help their looks, too. Try wearing pantyhose if you are wearing a skirt or dress. Hey, you might even want to learn how to walk properly in heels and don't take long strides like you are a soldier in a North Korean military parade. Maybe swing those hips. Ya know, pretend like you are a girl. Just for fun, of course.

[Gigabitch]

I was thinking about this yesterday. What has worked in the past- really broken down the defenses, is when a guy noticed that while I seem to be confident and capable, I must need some help or support. One guy said, "You're going through a lot of drama right now. You're going to need comfort. You're going to need solace. I'll be there for you."

I melted.

I shouldn't have; he was lying, but I melted anyway.

[CAM]

I was thinking about this yesterday. What has worked in the past- really broken down the defenses, is when a guy noticed that while I seem to be confident and capable, I must need some help or support. One guy said, "You're going through a lot of drama right now. You're going to need comfort. You're going to need solace. I'll be there for you."

I melted.

I shouldn't have; he was lying, but I melted anyway.

A true romantic at heart An endangered species, but a nice species

Yes, you shouldn't have melted. He was speaking through his testes and you were listening. Don't listen to testes. They have a nice Greek name (and curly hair, too)...but they're nothing but trouble....lying little bastards.

[SirWagginston]

I was thinking about this yesterday. What has worked in the past- really broken down the defenses, is when a guy noticed that while I seem to be confident and capable, I must need some help or support. One guy said, "You're going through a lot of drama right now. You're going to need comfort. You're going to need solace. I'll be there for you."

I melted.

I shouldn't have; he was lying, but I melted anyway.

****, I hate those guys. Just because I would try to say something like that, too, at the risk of being mistaken for one of them. It's hard to be hopelessly romantic when all the assholes are pretending to be.

[SecondChance]

I would say, dress well, smell good, be a gentleman, show affections, does it for my g/f.

[tufty]

maybe its just me but i get horny when someone holds my hand and uses one finger to draw swirls or woteva on my palm.

lol just me i guess :S

[Coco]

Men who don't have to ask this question but knows exactly what to do.
That's what makes girls horny.

[mrz16]

I guess each girls different. I find kissing a girls neck while holding her from behind works pretty good.

[vashti]

I guess each girls different. I find kissing a girls neck while holding her from behind works pretty good.

Absolutely works for me.

[mrz16]

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[all alone]

I guess each girls different. I find kissing a girls neck while holding her from behind works pretty good.

thats probably true for 95% of women