Not taking her feelings seriously.... or not?

[foxbat77]

According to her, I should have taken her feelings into consideration and have gotten them dressed because I know it hurts her.

Because of the porn thing so long ago, she has been wanting me to prove myself to her. I can definatly understand this. I agreed not to play any video games or watch any movies with "questionable" material in it. Then after a little while, I start to feel uncomfortable with this idea... and start to "whine" about not being able to do the things I like to do. (I've told her many times I play games and watch movies, not for that content, but for the entertainment aspect) She just see's it as a way to escape life.

I can be aloof sometimes. I'm a quiet guy around everyone, just not her, but when we are close and there is no bitterness between each of us, I do cuddle her, kiss her, give backrubs, tell her how sexy she is to me. I find it very hard to do these things, when ever I feel any kind of tension in her that I feel is towards me.

She wants me to prove to her that 1. I take her feelings into consideration. 2. She can trust me. 3. That she deserves to be happy. 4. That I can make her happy.

I think this really comes down to trust. She thinks because I want to do these things, that I put my own feelings and wants and needs, before hers, which perhaps I do, or is it insane to "bow" to every request she wants? It really seems not that everytime we get into a fight about anything, that it's because "I don't take her feelings into consideration".
She said we need to compromise. I agreed not to watch any R rated movie without her screening it first in turn for video games. But she gets PO'd at me for playing a game. I don't know if I really am being an inconsiderate "pr1ck" like she says, or if I'm just trying to "stand up" for myself.

[misombra]

you forgot number five, you cannot leave the house because there are...shhhh...girls out there! and number six, you cannot watch tv cause there are girls there too. and you cannot look at your penis because it will probably remind you of sex with someone else. oh and you're not allowed to masturbate. it's all about how far you're willing to go...