need a girls perspective...

[spaceboy409]

So I have hung out with this girl 3 times, and everytime we hang out, we get along so great, and it just feels so right, like we are already bf and gf.

Recently I asked her about dating, and she seemed kinda of hesitant, I tried calling her a few times and she didnt answer, so I sent her a message on myspace telling I was confused about what was goin on, and if she just wanted to be friends or what...

she wrote back this:
Thanks for the cute messages! I love your cute messages! I am sorry I didn't write you back. I have done some thinking and I don't think I am ready for anything more then a friendship. I just barely started to date you. I have been single and not dating for over a year, I know its sad but its true. I am retarded at this dating thing and I am really insecure about it. Please try to understand from an anxiety ridden, crazy person's view.

So I'm really not sure what to take from this...should I just stop talking to her, or continue to try to build something from it.

I really dont wanna invest alot of time and feelings into something if its not goin go anywhere.

[tufty]

she wants to be friends. stick with a friendship for now and see what happens.

[bloodtippedrose]

Keep hanging out with her and having fun but don't give up on massive flirting and reminding her you want her as a gf. Shes playing hard to get even if she doesnt know thats what shes doing.
Be her friend, but dont fall into the friendship zone -_- get it? godspeed!

[QueenofCorona]

Respect her wishes if thats what she wants. If she's playing games, thats retarded. Remain friendly with her but at this point the ball should be in her court as far as futher contact goes. Like you said, don't waste time on a lost cause. There are many other girls out there who when its right, it will just flow and there will be no mystery involved.

[spaceboy409]

Well I wrote her back, saying I understand, and apologized for trying to rush things,

I asked her if she still wanted to hang out tomorrow

and she said yeah of course, so I dont think Im totally out of the game yet...

Im just goin date around, and continue to hang out with her I think, and whatever happens, happens

[all alone]

if your not dating her within the next month. You will be friend zoned, I guarantee it. If you want to date this girl, you need to decide to i go for it now, or do I cut most if not all contact with her and leave yourself that option in the future.