Hello all i meet a women online a couple months ago fell in love. Just today while we was talking i sent her $50 and she laugh and siad that not help i dont need your money . I got upset cause thought she need the money . So i ask her if she ever sent anyone money? what u want to say i am anyone? then i ask her if she would send me money ? Trying to get her to see how i fell about what she did. Then she tells me u think i am anyone fu that good u tell me this. I try to tell no she says yes u say u not give anyone money meaning i think she is anyone to me. Then she goes off i never forget what u say fu i dont need you i got exboyfriend give me money never say anything like that.
I see what kind man u are now i not need you i will forget you you not kind goodbye .
Need some advice was she right? How to talk with her and get your back .
Please help thank you jim
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28-01-10, 10:28 PM #1
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28-01-10, 10:45 PM #2
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Why did you give her money? You seem very generous... Try and tell her you were only being kind hearted... She should not bring up her ex boyfriend, I think she got overwhealmed at your generousity.
Have you any advice on my post - Sebby, Am I being paranoid?
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28-01-10, 10:58 PM #3
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Hello i gave her money because i thought she needed it . Dont think she was overwhelmed she was sad and upset now and tells me she want nothing to do with me . Do you fell she was right that i consider her to be just anyone to her ?
That is what caused me to lose her she was very upset about the question.
I will try to see if i can help you also .
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28-01-10, 11:18 PM #4
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Dont worry
No you were not referring to her as just anyone, you need to speak with her and put her straight and tell her you did not mean to offend her. If it is meant to be it will be.
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28-01-10, 11:55 PM #5
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Thank you anyone else have any advice
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29-01-10, 01:08 AM #6
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I need money. Send me some! I will NOT be offended.
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29-01-10, 01:28 AM #7
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It wasn't enough money.
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29-01-10, 02:27 AM #8
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most girls are independant these days, even if they have financial worries that doesnt mean they want a man to come and 'save' them.
i would be disgusted if anyone thought by sending me money it would make me like them more than i already did.
money and things do not show a person they are cared for or loved.
having said that - if anyone wants to buy me shoes thats fine
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29-01-10, 03:34 AM #9
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Good point I know money cant buy love and friendships and was not trying to buy her love. I sent to help your with her phone bill because she called me a lot but guess she might have thought I was trying to buy her . I never sent money in the past and I knew her for 4 months. Maybe I should move on but I do care for her and want to make sure I not do anything wrong I think she is crazy for thinking like this . Thanks appreciate all the advice anyone else?
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29-01-10, 04:48 AM #10
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You are completely missing the point. He's not trying to "buy her love" her. Its very simple, he sent her $50 because he thought she NEEDED it and he actually cares about her. Man you just need to explain what you meant and help her realize she completly misunderstood what you meant. It really sounds like she has some issues though, for her to just run away with the idea of you not doing this out of the kindness of your heart.......mind boggling to me.
Originally Posted by tufty
most girls are independant these days, even if they have financial worries that doesnt mean they want a man to come and 'save' them.
i would be disgusted if anyone thought by sending me money it would make me like them more than i already did.
money and things do not show a person they are cared for or loved.
having said that - if anyone wants to buy me shoes thats fine
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29-01-10, 05:16 AM #11
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Yeah, don't send your internet girlfriend money because you know what's good for her. The message unsolicited money sends is she's either a child or a whore.
Speaking of sending money to people on the internets, I know this Nigerian prince that needs help getting some funds out of an escrow account...Keep your love life off Facebook, don't cheat, it's never too soon to make a move on a woman you like.
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29-01-10, 05:22 AM #12
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I don't believe it was the money. More the fact she misunderstood me when I ask her if she would send anyone money? I was trying to see how she fell if I did what she did to me.
She thought I was thinking she is just anyone to me because I send her the money.Not a loved one. But how the hell would I explain that different ? Yes i think she got issues
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