Hello honest people,
My girlfriend of 4 years just dumped me because of the following situation:
Last weekend, I went on a trip to Las Vegas with 5 other guys and 2 girls. We all stayed in the same hotel room. I allowed one of the girls to sleep on the same bed that I was sleeping on. This was especially stupid because I was the only dude with a girlfriend and there was a vacant spot next to one of the other guys. I was dead tired, fully clothed, and didn't think it was cheating to share a bed with another woman as long as I made no advances.
After the trip, I couldn't at first bring myself to tell my girlfriend about the sleeping arrangement even though I had stayed on my side of the bed and hadn't even laid a finger on the woman. It just sounded so bad to say, "yeah, I slept with another woman" So what did I do? I lied and said I slept with one of the guys.
Four days later, I realized my idiocy and told my girlfriend the truth. She was absolutely livid. I have never seen anyone so angry or hurt in my entire life. She dumped me that same night.
As a result of my actions, I have destroyed the best friendship I've ever had and have devastated someone I love immensely. I feel terrible. What do you think? Did I cheat on my girlfriend? Would you be hurt if your boyfriend behaved as I did? Honest answers please, we're all anonymous here. :-)