Supernova, that was a brave thing you just did. I know it would be hard for me if I had to do it. It hurts to leave the guy you originally fell in love with. He was trying to change the relationship into something it wasn't and thought you would accept it even if hurt you. That wasn't love.
It does make one wonder though that sometimes when you meet a person of a particular character in the beginning they tend to stray away from it to become a completely different person you weren't attracted to in the later stages of a relationship. Seasons change people change I guess. Certain events and influences can change a person in a better or worse way.