Recently... My family is having a problem. My parents are gonna get a divorce and it's effecting me and my little 11 year old brother. I told my girlfriend that if sometimes im out of line, it's cause I'm having family issues and she understood what I said.
Today, she brought up the topic about my parent's divorce. I told her that she shouldn't have to worry about this because it has nothing to do with her.. but she tells me that "your family problems are my problems," what did she mean by that? she's not part of the family.. she's my girlfriend.
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01-02-10, 02:26 PM #1
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What did she mean?
"In the arithmetic of love, one plus one equals everything, and two minus one equals nothing."
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01-02-10, 02:30 PM #2
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She was being sympathetic, and trying to help. She sounds like a keeper to me.
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01-02-10, 02:35 PM #3
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Basically when you are sad, she is sad. It hurts her to see you hurting.
So, so you think you can tell Heaven from Hell,
blue skies from pain.
Can you tell a green field from a cold steel rail?
A smile from a veil?
Do you think you can tell?
And did they get you to trade your heroes for ghosts?
Hot ashes for trees?
Hot air for a cool breeze?
Cold comfort for change?
And did you exchange a walk on part in the war for a lead role in a cage?
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01-02-10, 02:38 PM #4
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Originally Posted by Perryville
Yeah I know she's a keeper, I love that she cares about me. But in the past, when she had family problems, I was concern about her, cause when she's sad, it makes me sad too.. I can't do anything about it.. but I worry and talk to her.. but she said "it's none of your business" and that clearly hit dead center on the target.... it hurt. but why does she get to worry about me and I don't get to worry about her? Originally Posted by QueenofCorona
"In the arithmetic of love, one plus one equals everything, and two minus one equals nothing."
-- Mignon McLaughlin
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01-02-10, 07:27 PM #5
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Because some girls are like that. They are like mama. Mama is always worried and concerned about Your problem but she never wants You to take care of her problems.
Your gf maybe just wants to show that she's strong enough to deal with her problems but is getting automatically upset by Yours. I wouldn't be looking for a second bottom in there.I wazzzz here
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01-02-10, 07:55 PM #6
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Tell her that!
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02-02-10, 12:27 AM #7
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I don't think she's aware that she's being a hypocrit. Tell her that. Ask her exactly that why do you get to care and I don't?
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02-02-10, 12:29 AM #8
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some folks are good at being the shoulder to cry on, and not so much at turning to someone for a shoulder to cry on....either way, she was being sincere I think.....
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02-02-10, 12:31 AM #9
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This is stupid. Who cares who got to worry and who didn't. She's trying to be there for you. Stop being an ass.
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02-02-10, 12:36 AM #10
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I don't think he's being an ass. Check out his other posts he seems incredibly caring but this gf of his is all over the map. One days she's all kissy kissy the next she's like don't kiss my I'm sick. Then one day she's all talking about her family and shit, the next it's none of your business, mind your own. She's a typical 15 year old little girl who doesn't know what she wants and is being a hypocrite in every corner she sits in. Originally Posted by Coco
But yes, she cares for real. It's just a real pisser she pisses on you when you show the same courtesy.
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02-02-10, 12:39 AM #11
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Oh really?! I didn't know that. So she's the ass and he's the sweetie.
I'm sorry bun bun!!
I'm with Lulu and Girl now that I know this. If she is that much of a hypocrite I would tell her about herself. Big Time!
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02-02-10, 11:21 PM #12
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As the others have said, it's because she cares about you. In regards to her not speaking to you about her problems, why not have a chat with her about it? Don't get angry or anything, just ask her and talk it through. It's important to be honest in relationships and if that is bothering or worrying you then tell her.
