So long story short I get involved with this girl who ive known for years and I have a past with. She breaks up with her boyfriend and she comes to me. Her and I get physical and start hanging out. Then the ex tells her he cheated on her when they dated and she tells me she needs time to figure herself out. Which I respect
So we speak once every few days. last night she gets ahold of me. She tells me how shes working out, feeling confident and generally feeling better. She also tells me she didnt want me to think she forgot about me. That part made me happy.
She did also say that on saturday shes "going for drinks with a friend." She told me this on Wednesday, seems early to plan out drinks with a friend. I know a lot of her friends and i feel like she would have mentioned who it was. So I think its a guy. Clearly shes allowed to do this and there isnt much I can do, but should I be worried? Shes never been the type to go out and get physical for no reason, yet as a guy I know how most guys think. I didnt bother to ask her if it was actually a guy but I feel like saying "friend" and not "friend from work" or something indicates she doesnt want to tell me. Almost like she left it intentionally vague.
So am I just being paranoid or is it possible she's seeing someone else? Keep in mind when her and I were together she told me she's had a thing for me for 10 years.