Hey guys, I'm new to this so sorry if I'm posting wrong but I wanted a mans outlook on this. I'll give the story:
I was on my boyfriends laptop while he was at college (with his permission of course) and I accidentally deleted a file. I then went to the recycle bin to recover it, where I found porn. I thought they might have been funny pictures so to curb my worries I recovered it and went to the folder. He has been telling me for 2 years that he doesn't watch it. I then confronted him about the pictures I found, to which his response was 'i don't know why they're there, I don't remember getting them. I've never looked at them I promise'. I then explained to him the access dates. They were created and accessed at a later date. He said the computer must be wrong. It's never been wrong for me before. The clincher is that he was staying at mine those nights, so got them when I was asleep. Awesome. He then told me later that day that he had deleted them. So I wanted to check. Lo and behold, none were gone. So there must be multiple folders. I know men watch it, I'm not too happy about porn as in my opinion it's degrading. However I'm not trying to make him not watch it, just not lie about it. A few days later, I was on it again and he wanted me to delete his cookies etc for him. He was being pretty weird about it, so I wondered what he was hiding. Many cookies of porn sites it seems. I know none of his friends were on it as he never let's anyone else on but me and him. He also stopped recording his history after this happened, as I went on to buy a dress I was looking at, and history is gone. How can I get him to tell me the truth? I feel like I can't trust him right now. Help!