Huge dilemma

[qwertz]

I havent spoke to him since yesterday, but our other friend did tell me he slept on his sofa last night and was a bit of a mess.

I am staying well out of it now, and if i lose his friendship for a while for getting involved, then so be it, it wouldve been selfish of me to keep it to myself.

Lol, vash i never thought of that!

[Petit Papillon]

Yeah Q , if he finish this friendship because of it all ,then he never was Your friend at all.

[Charlie Boy II]

I wouldn't say anything, unless it was one of my best mates.

[Petit Papillon]

^It is her very best friend.

[lhn]

Q u definitely did the right thing hun. You're also right about staying out of it now.
He has the information to make an informed decision and it's now up to him what he chooses to do with it.

Goodluck

[qwertz]

Just an update..

My friend has moved out of their house- temporary for the moment, he just isnt sure what to do next. It turns out she has been cheating for the last couple of months. So while he gets his head together and decides what to do, he is living elsewhere.

He's being quite controlled and has avoided visiting our 'friend' who she was cheating with.

[Gigabitch]

Lucky "friend". If it were me, I would have "visited" him right away.

[misombra]

sounds like she's hanging out with more than one guy.

that'd be many visits.

[Roymax]

Qwerty, you did the right thing by standing up for your friend by being honest with him about what was happening to him. That's what a good friend does. He may not thank you now but when he comes back to the surface he will appreciate your concern. The ball is his court the only thing you can do is be there for his support if he needs it. Cheating sucks so I know how it feels. Hope he gets better.