Need some help

[Sebby]

Hi me again,

I just want to say everyone is so helpful on here, thank you...

Well things are going really well for me and my man, he lives in Austrailia so its hard.

But I have a problem....

I have genital herpes and he doesn't know although a so called friend of mine who lives in oz kindly told him I had it. I have no re-occurences and my last boyfriend never caught it from me so I was not really worried.... I told him I have cold sores and I did pass it on to my ex-husband's genitals, that was it...

But he recently sent me some naughty vidoes of his penis (yes we all do it) I feel embarressed now! And I could see on his penis he had a couple of what looked like large blister sort of things and a sore! help!

He has never said anything to me and is fine with me and is still coming over but im worried he may think he's caught it from me and I lied and end the relationship...

Any thoughts why he's not saying anything and what might happen?

[Gigabitch]

I don't know what the hell you were thinking by not bringing it up with him BEFORE you ever slept with him. Herpes is pretty common and it isn't the end of the world, it just requires a little bit more responsible behavior.

You need to have a real conversation with him about this, about the blotches on his dick, everything. You have ****ing herpes. Don't tell him you have "cold sores".

[Sebby]

Thanks....

But why is he not saying anything to me about it?

[Gigabitch]

Maybe he has herpes too and didn't mention it to you either. There must be a lot of that going around, or herpes wouldn't be as widespread as it is.

[Sebby]

thanks for you quick replies

[Gigabitch]

I am avoiding do my work. It's nothing to be proud of.

What are you going to do about this?

[Sebby]

hi skiver!!!

I really dont know I love the guy and he loves me, im so scared he will finish with me if he finds out

[QueenofCorona]

I agree with Giga. Not being 110% upfront and honest isn't an option in this case. Put yourself in his shoes. He needs to know and its your obligation to tell him.

In some areas you can actually be criminally charged for not disclosing your disease history with partners, although I think its just AIDS so far but still.