Porn - reality, body types, attraction etc

[Illusional]

This site, mostly. It's hottt. Nothing turns me on like heartbroken, confused people.

wow, you and me both share the same twisted fetishes... i'm in love with you.

raverboy

[Gigabitch]

wow, you and me both share the same twisted fetishes... i'm in love with you.

raverboy

I'll try to provide you with something pathetic and whiny soon to keep your interest.

[Incognito]

The porn watching shouldn't be alarming, as noted by many here already. What I personally find disquieting is the fact that you try to initiate sex most of the time and he turns you down. I would KILL to have a woman with a sex drive, as would most guys. If I never mentioned sex again my wife wouldn't even notice, and definetly wouldn't complain. If the ONLY porn he views is the "teen/ barely legal" porn, that may be a concern too because it would point to what his real world preferrences might be. If that is simply the "flavor of the month" I wouldn't be worried about how his porn preferences pertain to you.

[Illusional]

I'll try to provide you with something pathetic and whiny soon to keep your interest.

another reason why i love you. you're always on the lookout for me and taking care of me...

raverboy

[Chupacabras]

Pr0n tastes and a guys "type" don't necessarily translate into real life. If he's dating you, don't worry about it, he's not inflexible with who he'll date.

Coco, you must spend a lot of time disgusted.

[Illusional]

hahah on the other hand, us porn watchers spend a lot of time "happy"

raverboy

[Cbrider]

Well, if you trust BMI calculators, then yeah. I'm around 66-67kg, 5'3". If I lost 10kg then I'd be average I guess. 20 would take me down to about 100lb's ish. Whether that is physically possible I don't know though. I think I'll make more of an effort, maybe more for me since my self esteem is in the gutter right now

Two things here that you need to realize:

1.) BMI scales, while meant to show healthy levels of body weight, are fairly lofty and some what unreachable goals for the LARGE majority of the population. I wouldn't be surprised if 85% of the U.S. population scored below the "healthy" mark. I'm 22, 6'6" and weigh roughly 90 kg. I am in fairly good shape with a little over 8% body fat and a thin, athletic build. I score BARELY above the healthy mark on a BMI scale. It's accurate if you live in a world without all the technology and conveniences of modern day. You wont find a world that comes close to the average unless you went back a few centuries where people basically did everything by hand.

2.) Porn is NOT reality. Women depicted in porn are not real world women. Understandable that you are a little shaken, but its nothing to worry about. Unless he ends up on "To Catch a Predator" with Chris Hansen, you have no reason for concern.

[skn1f123]

Well, if you trust BMI calculators, then yeah. I'm around 66-67kg, 5'3". If I lost 10kg then I'd be average I guess. 20 would take me down to about 100lb's ish. Whether that is physically possible I don't know though. I think I'll make more of an effort, maybe more for me since my self esteem is in the gutter right now

You should only lose the weight to make yourself happy, never for anyone else.