How Long Should You Wait?

[kanzaki]

*smacks smacks smacks*

[King Zarathu]

i say the end of the 2nd date is the best time.

[sleepy]

i love love love the "swoop and kiss" on the first date - i think about nothing but him for like the next nine days if i get that first aggressive kiss.

my best one: for some reason we were playing in a park on a first date a few years ago and he just de-swinged me and kissed me without talking at all - it.was.so.awesome. that's all we did, but it was great.

[Bianca81]

end of the second date is best. the suspense kills me. but in a good way.

[Frebbiezadyke]

come on none of u have hear dof the ****ed frist...lol i joke of course anyway it all depends on the person some ull be ****ing as the end up the night and other u wait like 4 dates before kissing

[abercromqt20]

but i think the ones u stay with are the ones you wait for. i mean there is nothing wrong with kissing on the first date. but if you sleep with him the first date chances are its a completely sexual thing and it won't last as long it will with the guy who waited to kiss you. the guy who waits 9 times out of 10 respects you more, and is more of a gentleman. those qualities will go a long way!

[King Zarathu]

with my g/f i waited 4 months for a hug. then on the 5th month of dating she kissed me. 6th month we made out. 7th month i conquered that ass. and now 8th month she's being a stuck up ****ing bitch and i don't wanna do things with her hahah

remember i'm her first bf so 4 months u know she was shy hahah

[manonfire]

hahaha yah but you and me are in highschool, thigns move a LOT slower in Highschool... usually. =P

[abercromqt20]

yeah they do. that's so funny cuz i was just thinking about that the other day.... oh the memories!

[MVPlaya]

What do you think is an acceptable amount of dates to go on before kissing goodnight? Is the first date ever appropriate? I know some people don't kiss until they get married to keep the feelings special. That's not the common thing to do though...

I think you should always set up artificial constraints based on arcane practices to figure out how you should act on dates, rather than asking yourself if you want to kiss her and if she seems receptive.

[Joe_Watson]

I think you should always set up artificial constraints based on arcane practices to figure out how you should act on dates, rather than asking yourself if you want to kiss her and if she seems receptive.

MVPlaya: could you provide us with a translation of what you just said?
Call me a dumbass, but I don't understand your point.

[King Zarathu]

joe.. ur not a dumbass... ur just blonde at heart like me except i know what he meant lol

[Joe_Watson]

OK, LT what did he mean?
Please translate for me.

[King Zarathu]

you should always hold urself back and get to know the person first before kissing. meaning, you gotta restrain yourself.. like, don't just take her out on the first date and expect to pork-**** her right then and there..

that's what he means

get to a certain degree of comfortability

[MVPlaya]

No.

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