So here's my problem. I feel like my relationship with my boyfriend has changed greatly the last 6 months. He pretty much thinks he can do whatever he wants. Why do I say this? Here are some examples. He says that he can look at porn, but I can't. He can do drugs, but I can't.(i dont even want to but thats besides the point). He treats my son like shit (obviously my son is not his) he always yells when hes talking to him, hes always smacking him too hard on his head and doing shit that basically makes my son stop and be quiet. his mood changes so much when my bf is around. My boyfriend and i live together and he goes and locks himself in OUR room. If i have to go in there im forced to knock and he asks me what i want. I dont believe i should have to do that in my own room. I do not have space of my own like that. I am forced to stay in the living room where he barges in whenever he wants even when i ask for alone time. He even says that he will always barge in on me. Just recently i found naked pictures of one of his friends that he has. He would freak if i did that and he keeps telling me its no big deal. I have gotten a bloody nose, and bruises from him. He says he only fights back when i get physical but i have never tried to hurt him like he has me. It's mostly when i tell him to leave me alone and give me my space, but he will not get away from me. He grabs me, holds on to me, follows me around. Yea im gonna get upset. My son had to get staples in his head because of his stupidity. As of right now, my chest is burning because he squeezed me too hard. My arm is bruised and skin was taken off because he shoved me when i was trying to go up the stairs to my bedroom. he was trying to keep me from going up there for some reason. He smokes and lies to me about it even when i know for a facts hes doing it. How do i know? because i can smell it. i find ashes and butts all over. Theres just shit upon shit lately and i cant take it anymore. id like both guy and girls opinions please. is he controling or what? why is it always his way? why is he hurting me all of a sudden? the only time i ever am a bitch to him is when he restraints me and wont let go of me. i do this guys laundry, i cook him dinner. why am i getting treated like this? somebody please help.