So my ex girlfriend has got back in touch, even said if I'm cool to "do the mates thing" now we could meet for Lunch.
I never intentionally broke up contact with her, but while I was out the Country she sent some text's which I never recieved, then gave it one final text saying "I understand from your lack of response to my texts that your after 0% contact, which I understand, but it's Ironic as now I work just round the corner from you, anyhow hope 2010 is good to you" - She is still with someone else!
Yes I like this girl & always have done, I broke up with her, just needed space, in which time she met someone else, completely the opposite of me, A "safe bet" I would say! She loved me very much, I did her too, but I made a few mistakes which caused her to be jealous, not any actions on women, just not showing as much affection as I should have done leaving her feeling I never loved her deep enough...... Far from the truth, but anyhow I needed space.
So regarding this text from her, I have met her, and the connection felt just as before..... everyone around us, even sound dissapears when we're together, we don't judge one another, we can talk about anything. Now when we met up she was bringing up little things about the past, all good things, even told me a story she said she could only tell me!
So I'm kind of lost, I know she is still with this other guy, yet she still wants to meet me for lunch, I'm curious does her boyfriend know about us meeting, and the other thing, IF she is so in love with him, why is she wanting to meet me??
I'm not after rushing anything, but I know I have feelings for her, I've gone through things in my head over and over, I'm 35, too long in the tooth to be starting something then changing my mind, and being round this girl just feels so right, and the history we had without all the romantic holidays was a fantastic match I thought....... We've many things in common. Now I'm also too long in the tooth to be striking up a friendship with an ex knowing I'm going to warm to her again as there has ben nobody else since our break 8 months ago, just been improving myself in this time.
So what do I do girls, should I continue seeing her? I'm almost certain there is an attraction there.