how can i make her trust me fully? we've been together for 9 months already..but when her friends pop up a story for her saying that her friend saw me and another girl at school but it ain't even true..now i feel like she believes her friend rather than me..i just want to prove her that i won't leave her and i am determined to do that..i just want her trust..but how can i get it?
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27-02-10, 06:24 PM #1
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28-02-10, 01:46 AM #2
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Build trust.
The first question I need to ask u is this: Is there any reason for her to "not trust" you?
Most of the time when women or men are paranoid all the time thinking their significant other is with someone else is because there's reason to doubt.
If this is not your case, meaning you've never given her any reasons for not trusting you then she's the one doing things wrong.
In these type of situations, I strongly recommend you talk to her. A 9 month relationship must have at least some good communication skills and you must use this to achieve your goal.
If you love her, let her know. Explain to her that she has no reason to feel threatened by other girls, and if she keeps feeling insecure I believe you should let her know you won't put up with that much longer.
I know it sounds harsh, but sometimes you have to be strong and let her know that this issue bothers you and if she's going to be with you in a serious relationship she has to work on her trust.
Be honest, be serious. Always remind her of how much you love her. This is the key.[SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]
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28-02-10, 01:52 AM #3
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Originally Posted by confusedoften
Always tell her the truth and if she can't handle it (while you're being faithful).... turf her.
