i guys,
Well i'll just get straight to the point.I was dating this girl for 3 months.She suddenly called it off in october last year for no particular reason.She said she had no more feelings for me.After the break up i did all the wrong things-begged,pleaded,cried etc.She said she wanted to remain friends,liked me and cared for me but would never be in a relationship with me ever..
She had a rough past with her ex bf who treated her badly although strangely enough she still loved/loves him.. but at the same time she told me she would never go back to him.well apart from being needy and begging i didnt do anything wrong after the breakup..i did however go to mutual friends and discussed the whole break up(BIG MISTAKE)..i did tell her that i would not contact her for sometime as i would want to get myself together..I also told her that i respected her decision for the break up.
I put no contact into play for 6 weeks.Towards the end of the 6 weeks she deleted me from facebook and removed all our photographs..She also deleted any comments she made on my photos or any wall posts for that matter!! after 6 weeks i bumped into her.She seemed nice and welcoming at first but then after a while seemed cold whilst talking..she's been ignoring me ever since and i did ask her out for coffee but she declined..She does seem spiteful as she put it up on facebook that she's been having a greeat time ever since the breakup but it's jsut not genuine enough.
Well it goes without saying that i love her because it's been 4 months since the break-up and i'm not over her.At first I thought i was acting out of rejection but i genuinely do like her.I"ve treated her really well but it's sad that i have clearly been taken for granted.
I wanted help regarding what to do next as her behaviour seems so confusing and is clearly affecting me in a big way
regards
sxc