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[shibaku]

hey,

there is this girl at my work, we use to talk a lot, and she always has this smile on her face everytime that we meet. Even when she comes in sad, when we make eye contact she smiles. I'm the only one she tells personal stuff too and i could swear she likes me. It's just the way she looks at me ...

but everytime we're alone she starts acting distant, we still talk but i can barely see any emotion. Than i get confused and i take a step back with asking her out.

few days later, its the same story all over


Is she testing me or dosn't she see me the way i see her?

[kisswithafist]

she either does like you and is a little shy when your alone together or she is just innocently flirting with you and panics when your alone together because she actually dosent want anything to happens and she thinks you might make a move.

but either way why dont you just ask her out and get it over with, or because you work with her couldnt you send her a few flirtly emails or something and see how she responds, nothing too major just enough so she sees you really are interested then the balls in her court.

[shibaku]

if she was afraid of me asking her out, why would she continue flirting with me? :S

[Incognito]

Thats what women do somethimes (and a few guys too, but not many). Some people simply like the attention and the flirting. They don't want anything more, or may even be in a relationship already. The best thing to do instead of wondering is to follow kisswithafist's advice.

[kisswithafist]

yeah lots of women just like the attention, i suspect she knows you like her already and enjoys the flirting, because lets face it everyone likes to be desired by someone, if they admit it or not, all women like attention.

But if you dont ask you'll never know.

[shibaku]

Well, i'll let you know when i got the chanche to talk to her alone.