For the last year a man at work has been flirting with me. It started out with him showing physical attraction - looking me up and down and progressed to what seemed to me to be more emotional attraction - gazing with soft eyes into my eyes and always looking at me (at my face) with an almost besotted look. We got on well and chatted and joked and he always looked at me in a group. I felt attracted to him too and returned the looks and eventually my I developed feelings for him. But just as I felt something could happen, he was transferred. I saw him a couple of times after that, by chance - at work dos. He was still looking at me - he even whispered in my ear that I was lovely and very good my job. We found ourselves alone and he kissed me - very softly and tenderly ending with a tender eskimo kiss. I emailed him and he never replied - his excuse was 'work email was not private'. Do you think he had feelings for me or was I just part of a game for him. Surely if he cared (he said he did) he would not ignore me and leave me pining like this.