Dancing

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So... wedding comming up... We actually wanted to do a location wedding, perhaps vegas - we got engaged in vegas, and have vacationed there 4 times, we both love vegas(not like cheap elvis is marrying you vegas) or hawaii; my parents loved the idea, her parents not so much(catholics). They wanted big family wedding. Anyways, my question is, how important is dancing to you girls?

I've never liked dancing. My fiance likes to... I go with her sometimes, she will dance with her girlfriends, or sometimes with me(if I am drunk enough to get out on the floor - not very often though). I don't know I just feel uncomfortable dancing, I kind of know how to, I am not a complete clutz out there, but, I just don't like it.

Anyways, the destination wedding would have been great. Could have choosen whatever we wanted to do after the wedding(of course we would have pre-set this up, but we didn't plan it as we aren't doing it)... but with the traditional reception... lots of dancing... I have gone to four of her family weddings recently(cousins, sister), and at least 2 to 3 hours of the reception everyone(bride and groom included) were dancing... Dancing just isn't something that is fun for me, and it sucks that it is going to be one of the main parts of my wedding day... I know my fiance likes it, and I try to do it for her when I can, but it is just going to make me very anxious at the reception... I don't like being in front of 200 people to begin with...

[girl68]

To me it is a dealbreaker. So I'd say "very important".

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If it was a dealbreaker with her, she'd already be gone, but I am amazed for you it is a dealbreaker!

Dancing is just moving, it isn't sex, it doesn't provide for you, it doesn't do anything... Odd it can be so important.

[Petit Papillon]

My bf isn't a dancer either and I finally found out that our friends like to dance salsa and we're going to go to some salsa evennings here to learn I want to teach my bf how to dance like that.
Maybe you both could go to some dancing clubs? like salsa? There should be some latino clubs around you that organise something like this once per week. The one we go to is even for free, people just go and dance Such dance can teach you to know how to feel the rythm and how to move a bit should try it

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My bf isn't a dancer either and I finally found out that our friends like to dance salsa and we're going to go to some salsa evennings here to learn I want to teach my bf how to dance like that.
Maybe you both could go to some dancing clubs? like salsa? There should be some latino clubs around you that organise something like this once per week. The one we go to is even for free, people just go and dance Such dance can teach you to know how to feel the rythm and how to move a bit should try it

Thanks. I guess I could try dancing lessions. Will be anxios there as well, but not as bad as at the wedding

[Petit Papillon]

Dancing lessons or really to go to a club where is a bunch of latinos. No one will care about how you dance there because everyone will be dancing and having fun. The music is loud,atmosphere is perfect just have to start to feel the ruthm and dance move you hips on the left and on the right, hold your gf and move you can then watch others how they do it and try to repeat after them. should be helpfull

[girl68]

I am amazed for you it is a dealbreaker!

Dancing is just moving, it isn't sex, it doesn't provide for you, it doesn't do anything... Odd it can be so important.

It is sex-UAL. It is very intimate, fun, and I get a lot of pleasure from it. In fact if I had my way with a man on a dance floor I could make myself cum in less than 2 minutes.

What the hell does providing have anything to do with dancing? That's a silly thing to have said.

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It is sex-UAL. It is very intimate, fun, and I get a lot of pleasure from it. In fact if I had my way with a man on a dance floor I could make myself cum in less than 2 minutes.

What the hell does providing have anything to do with dancing? That's a silly thing to have said.

How do you plan to make him cum on the dance floor... Unless you unzip my pants, you ain't gona be able to make me cum... Almost impossible to cum with just a handjob... need some more sensation... dancing wouldn't do it for me.

I meant dancing doesn't do anything, was just giving an example.

[Petit Papillon]

For me crazy thing to say is that not dancing is a dealbreaker

' I break up with you babe ,because you dance like ****!' lol

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I guess lots of woman also put dancing and sex togeher... thinking if a guy can dance he will be good at sex... well while all those a-holes/sluts were out at bars trying to hook up with girls, I was exploring my sexuality(yes, with myself... porn... what else is a horny and non active sexual teen going to do...)... and I'm complete opposite in bed as I am on the dance floor.

Kind of like in revenge of the nerds... cept I'm not a nerd ;p

[Petit Papillon]

I belive you cause i have that example at home It's big BS that if a guy can't dance he also sucks in bed. pfiou

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I belive you cause i have that example at home It's big BS that if a guy can't dance he also sucks in bed. pfiou

I thought u just said you would dumb a guy who can't dance...

For me crazy thing to say is that not dancing is a dealbreaker

' I break up with you babe ,because you dance like ****!' lol

[Petit Papillon]

Eee no? You must have mistaken me with girl ...

[girl68]

How do you plan to make him cum on the dance floor... Unless you unzip my pants, you ain't gona be able to make me cum... Almost impossible to cum with just a handjob... need some more sensation... dancing wouldn't do it for me.

You've clearly never been grinded on. But I did say I could make MYSELF cum. Though you mention how I could make him? Easy, back that ass up and swirl it around. I'd feel a poke comin' through on me.......... and I'd proceed to rub the weiner even harder. Yeah baby, yeah.

So dancing does a lot of things. It's excercise for 1, it makes me feel sexy for 2, it gets my guy excitied for future activities for 3, and it's bloody fun for 4.

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hmm, perhaps.