Hi all, i am new here and looking for some help and advice.

I really like my neighbour as a person she lives alone and we met a few months ago she works away a lot so dont really see her that often, we've been out for a drink a few times and had a good time.

My problem is I think i've started to get on her nerves a bit. She has asked for a favour a few times by text, and as trivial as it seems she doesn't say please or thank you in her texts. This really winds me up for some reason, and it gets in my head and i end up being a bit off with her. Even in my work if someone doesnt use manners it can really pee me off too. It seems to be in my nature.

Also, it takes her a good while to reply to my texts to her and this also tends to wind me up. Partcularly when I know she is in, I always reply swiftly to people and acknowledge them. So I never understand it.

Its got to the point a few times where I've started taking my time to reply back on purpose too.

I'd like to mentally not be so sensitive to things and take it in my stride more, any tips?